Unfortunely... in the world we live in,theoretically assaulting me for the theoretical burning of your chair, is an acceptable response. even though i think we all place too much value on property (and i'm quite sure you understand my feelings around the idea of property rights given our history),i would never have burned your chair. that's not the point i'm trying to make.
the point is, whether you think she deserved it or not, assaulting women isn't acceptable.
and just so you're picking up what you're putting down...
According to Living with the Passive- Aggressive Man, a self-help book, "a passive man does little to get what he wants as it is too much effort to do so, and ranges from the inept "loser" type to the conformist who does anything to be liked, avoids making waves and rarely says what he feels"
i have clearly said what i feel and have no aversion to making waves.
i WISH you could see the hypocrisy in your justification of your actions.